OK, some of the stuff from Monica’s blog post made me think of the entire cultural mindset around thin-fat.
It’s not nice to discriminate against fat people just like it’s not nice to discriminate against thin people. Most people are sensitive — or at least I’m sensitive enough to not make any comments about people’s weight in general unless I’m specifically critiquing their bodies for some reason (like when I went to a few local bodybuilding shows where some of Chris’s gym buddies were competing at). However, many people think it’s OK to criticize thin people for being thin. “Eww…look at that anorexic model / actress, etc., etc.” How would they feel if someone said, “Eww….look at that fat girl / guy, etc., etc.” Just like they think they can’t do anything about their excessive weight, maybe those thin people can’t do anything about their thinness either.
But what really bothers me the most is people talking as if being overweight is a normal and/or healthy thing. Because I don’t think it is.
Nor do I think it’s nice of them to say that thin people aren’t “real” or something snide because real men want women with meat on their bones, etc.
Because for every comment they make, I can always think of exceptions.
Yes, some people are just born big and there’s nothing they can do about it. Sometimes it’s just their genes. Or diseases or health conditions, such as hypothyroism, diabetes, poor insulin sensitivity, etc.
The biggest and the strongest argument for “OK to be overweight” is that overweight people are healthy and fit. What percentage of overweight people are indeed healthy and fit? Can they sprint? Can they move fast? Can they jump over a wall to escape in case of fire?
What about excessive wear and tear? Their overworked joints? Heart?
People claim they have to eat so little in order to lose weight. Why? Because they screwed up their metabolism systematically over decades. Insulin insensitivity can be inherited, but it’s almost always something you create. Eating crappy food will do that to you. (Insulin insensitivity makes you hoard fat like you wouldn’t believe it.)
When I first decided to diet several years ago, I ate about 2,200 calories/day six days/week and I ate whatever I wanted for one day/week. I exercised for about 30 mins to an hour / day, six days / week. I leaned out a lot, dropped two dress sizes. Mind you, I didn’t start out big — about size eight/ten. (Consulting Fifty…don’t ask)
So I dropped to size six.
Then I quit dieting (work reasons and I was happy with where I was more or less and a car accident created some problems).
I can still eat about 2,500 cal/day and maintain my weight as long as I eat good whole food and exercise about two to four times/week. When I want to lose weight, I eat about 1,500 - 1,800 cal/day and exercise about four times/week. If I eat less I don’t do too well unless I get to do frequent refeed. If I want to eat more and still lose weight, I need to sprint and/or run at least twice a week. (Note how I did that a few years ago)
Here’s the thing — people don’t generally weigh 200-300 pounds naturally if they eat healthy and are moderately active. Those who do are either very tall or (and in some cases) athletes who have a lot of muscles, which weigh more and are denser than fat.
BTW — if you think what I’m saying here is irrelevant because I’m not a big chick, let me tell you about my friend who’s a plus size girl and started to eat healthy and exercised. She lost weight even with weekly cheats. She wasn’t starving either — ate quite a lot of calories — 2,350/day on her normal diet days.
I think I proved my point.